An Artist's Sketchbook of Simple Living
The Good Connection ❤ Late Season Surprise ❤ A Small Kindness ❤ Moonshadow ❤ Pineones 101 ❤ Time In a Tailspin
The Good Connection
Something good has come our way. In the last two or three weeks, we've seen a new rabbit out back having his morning and evening meal. He sits near the side yard in the taller grass and nibbles on clover while keeping an eye out for danger. Three times I've seen him near the Fretting Porch and twice on the patio garden only a few feet from the back door. We have several herb pots to interest him, so food is plentiful.
I grew attached to this spotted rabbit very quickly, and began looking for him each morning as soon as I got up, even before there was coffee. I've taken his picture over and over, I've left him a carrot, I've tried to make rabbit noises to him, and even hummed one day to convince him I'm harmless.
He doesn't scare easily, but he does scare. His escape route is the far corner of our property, far away from humans and startling noises. I imagine him two years from now, still hanging around, stopping by to say hello on his way back down the warren, and even letting me pet him once in a while.
Notice I said "I imagine."
It's curious how quickly he became part of the life of our home, which led me to think about the importance of connection. Even in the crossing of paths between two homebodies like my husband and I, and a small rabbit, there was life, and life is contageous.
Lighting the Night
That's why I hope we never stop welcoming new connections to our lives, even a rabbit. It's also why every night, if you pass by our home, you'll see a light left on at the front door, and sometimes in the window too. It's a beacon of sorts, a connection in case someone needs to make their way back home, or even a stranger who simply needs to feel attached.
Or in case a rabbit needs a place to stay.
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The carrot I left for our new animal friend was ignored, by the way. I found out rabbits aren't really interested in vegetables, and prefer grasses and herbs or flowers instead.
Well, you learn something new every day.
In this world of disconnect, life needs other life. It's a basic building block, and a thought I've had off and on for a while now. It seems more clear to me with each passing year. No one and nothing really wants isolation, and a home darkened by it is not a good idea.
Late Season Surprise
This is the melon
that hung on the vine
that circled the tomato cage
that stood in the garden
that the head rabbit built.
I've been carrying this tiny melon around with me all day, since my husband found it laying unattached on the ground this morning outside the melon cage. It's only the size of a tennis ball, but nicely striped and gently soft.
I think it might even be ripe.
This spring I planted three heirloom melon seeds, saw them suffer in the heat, doubted their survival, and then watched this little ball of fruit appear and grow slowly from a skinny vine I had almost pulled up. I don't remember the variety, but it's got some spunk.
It's here with me now--the melon ball--and I must tell you, the aroma of sweet ripened summer is all around.
A friend sent me a picture last week of a palm-sized potato she found hidden in a flower pot that was filled with compost from the previous year. It had another potato attached two inches up on the narrow vine, only about the size of a dime.
Several years ago I found a perfect sweet potato that had been overlooked during a small harvest two months prior. It was exciting to suddenly see a patch of orange in the dark brown dirt.
It seems like every year there is at least one surprise left in the garden as summer begins to close up shop. I've almost come to expect it, which makes cleanup before winter something to enjoy.
If this year's surprise melon turns out to indeed be ripe, I can cut it into three or four small pieces and eat it with tomorrow's breakfast. It's even better when the surprise makes a meal more elegant.
I feel somewhat embarrassed that I gave up on this little melon too soon in the summer. It's not the first time I've done that either. It's just that it's leaves were so dead and the vine so skinny.
Nature, I've noticed, doesn't fret about what might stop its progress or get in the way. "No matter," it says, "how skinny my legs or shriveled my hands." It assumes the best and moves along--busy, busy above and underneath this surface of toil we sometimes contend with, always looking to the next good thing.
I wish I was like that more often.
Write all that down somewhere and let's try to remember it.
PS. The little melon was, indeed, ripe! It was sweet, juicy, and a little more tartly-green tasting than other musk mellons. Yum! Oh, and a small spread of seeds is now drying on the counter for next spring.
Until next time,
A Small Kindness
A week or two ago, during the Labor Day Weekend, our family gathered for a lunch picnic and general mayhem. We call it our Labor Day Whoop-de-do, and for me it marks the time of the release of summer into autumn and the holidays.
It was a good day with nothing big or complicated happening. I was looking foward to setting the table fancy-like and pretty as a picture, but time was pressing on me the closer it got to mid day. In fact, I was beginning to scurry--a word I use more than I would like to describe the critter-like manners of a woman on a mission.
Anyway, I wanted to make the day a good one for my family, and the table setting seemed an important part.
The small pieces I use for table settings are kept in a large box in the dining room--napkin rings and coasters mostly. After a full-fancy meal they get tossed back into the box quickly and without any thought--a colorful, disorganized heap--to wait for their next party. Going through them quickly at the last minute to match the pieces together can be frustrating when you're in a scurrying hurry.
So I spread out a sand-colored tablecloth, placed six pumpkin-colored plates into a crooked square, and grabbed the box of supplies.
No time to waste.
I jangled the lid off in a clumsy hurry, expecting to see the heap I'd grown to know so well. "Oh my goodness, would you look at that?" I said out loud.
A friend of mine had come to visit a few weeks prior and had taken it upon herself to carefully arrange napkin rings, coasters and such in neat rows, like a shadow box of reds and greens, straw and silver! I remembered her shuffling things around in the box, but neither of us mentioned it at the time, and I had forgotten until then, about her detailed work.
I've said it before but I'll say it again. It really takes very little to encourage someone, and to help them keep on keeping on.
I finished setting the table for our whoop-de-do, only now I wasn't in so much of a rush. I took my time, in fact, and chose just the right color coasters to go with the fall glasses. I even straightened the plates into a perfect square. No hurry. No fretting.
Thank you, my friend. Your good work did not go unnoticed.
Moonshadow
It occurred to me one cold evening a few years ago that I hadn't seen the moon in several weeks.
It was an odd thought. Was it stuck below the horizon, unable to rise? Or had it simply gone away to quietly illuminate other worlds? Either way, I had an unsettled feeling of loss, and suddenly missed my old friend.
As a child I used to see the moon often, in all its glorious phases. When I was seven years old, my family and I moved from the Appalachian mountains to the Gulf Coast of Florida, and suddenly there was sky above me--wide sky, night sky with nothing in it, only the moon. As a child of seven, moon science was lost to me, but not its beauty.
Standing near the water's edge at night I often watched and waited for the moon to break through the horizon, a sliver of orange that shimmered larger and larger on the surface of the water; or I saw it hover overhead, white and round, at other times thin and curved.
. . . and I saw its shadows.
While living in Nashville, Tennessee many years later, my husband and I rented a small farm away from city lights and traffic. It was just right for seeing the night sky.
I don't remember what woke me, but late one winter evening I got out of bed and walked across the wooden floor to look out the window. It had snowed that afternoon, and the hills and fences around our farm were painted in a blue and white silence like I had not seen before. The sky was crystal clear; the moon was full.
I couldn't believe the beauty of the scene. All the hillside was dappled in blue shadows made by trees, fences, and cows, while a ghostly glow illuminated the snow. The air itself looked like that of another place, as if I had entered a child's world of fairy tales.
It was a private event I had been invited to attend, and in spite of the fact that I had arrived alone, I did not feel unknown.
When I realized several years ago, having found myself living once again in the Appalachian mountains, that I hadn't taken time to see the moon in a very long while, I made a vow to look for it faithfully in the night sky, especially when it was full.
It was a good promise, and most of the time I do a good job of keeping watch, even though the sky over our home is mosly covered at night by trees and street lights. I do, however, have one spot that is perfect for moon viewing. If I go to the window at the top of the stairs at just the right time, in just the right season and weather, I can still see the moon in its many phases--the same moon I saw in Florida, as a matter of fact, and the same one I saw in Nashville.
This month of September is the Harvest Moon, perhaps the most stunning of the year. The lower you can catch it on the horizon, the bigger and more orange it will look. So plot out a good spot now for low-horizon moon watching this month. I'll be looking at it with you.
Pinecones 101 )
I wandered outside this afternoon to gather sticks and to hear the crickets one more time before fall sets in. Their time is short.
Walking past the potting shed by way of the worn, golf cart path I noticed the landscape was beginning to change now that September had come. Some things were looking healthier and had deeper color than in August, while others were starting to dry and looked spent. Spring's hopeful burst of energy in nandina berries and okra blossoms was a clear contrast to the scattered yellow leaves and broken stems that now lay on the ground. I hardly knew whether to pack up and go home until next year, or start my next garden project.
Several pinecones lay around the trunks of two tall pines, and I noticed that one pinecone stood out more than the others. I picked it up to get a closer look. The cyan color on its tips was beautiful against dark, wood-like petals. I supposed the color was created by a thin layer of either lichen or tree moss such as you sometimes see on the north side of tree trunks and small limbs. It was smooth and thin--a solid dusting, and it looked hand painted.
Once inside I looked for pictures of pinecones online and to see if any had the same beautiful, turquoise tips. They didn't, so I turned my attention to identifying names of parts in case I needed to refer to them one day. It's rewarding, isn't it, to know what you're talking about?
I'm afraid, however, that I know less now than when I started. I should have known a pinecone is not just a pinecone.
What I called a "petal" is actually a "leaf." The leaves sit on the rachis, you see, which also has a peduncle. The leaves have prickles--that one I can understand--but what I didn't know was that they are found on the ends of "umbos."
September is a wonderful time for weaving a rag rug--or a small piece of wall art.
Quiet morning, hot coffee, first cool day of fall. mmmm, nice.
"If I take the wings of the morning, and dwell in the uttermost parts of the sea; even there shall thy hand lead me."
Ps. 139:9,10
That dream hasn't happened, but it's still a pleasant one to carry around. In the meantime, I do enjoy finding such things as this cyan-tipped specimen, then researching the parts and saying them out loud occasionally in an authoritative voice.
How does this sound? "Today I found a pinecone with its dorsal umbo and prickle in tact, minus the rachis or peduncle, of course."
I'll keep practicing.
In the meantime, we'll both keep a careful eye on this our world as it spins along on its silent, invisible axis.
"The longer I live, the more beautiful life becomes."
Frank Lloyd Wright, architect
When I crossed over into September several days ago, I already felt a fear for my sense of unhurried time. It gets lost right about this time of the year when holidays begin to pile on top of each other, and I start feeling in a hurry, or worse, late all the time.
Remember in school how you used to watch the clock for the bell to ring and one minute seemed like fifteen? Time is funny that way, never late but always on time.
I bought the watch in this picture a few years ago when I passed a display of them in a department store. I didn't miss a beat, just picked it up and went straight to the checkout. I know a good watch when I see one.
I love to wear it. It has a big, smiling face and plenty of dots for a good time. It doesn't talk too much and respects my privacy, so if I start to feel things spinning a little to fast, I at least don't have to worry about a lecture from my watch. I like that.
I like wearing a watch. It makes me feel important and professional. But I mean the old school kind of watch that has hands and ticks them quietly while you're busy in your own world. The new ones are nice with their rubber bands and all; but, well, they make me nervous, and a watch aught not do that.
For one thing, they're always telling you you're behind schedule. What's more, you haven't done enough, now have you? You should have walked more, and tried harder. Your heart's overheating too, and your blood sugar is a mess. Oh, and I see you've gained three more pounds.
If you already have one of the new watches, that's OK. Just don't let it push you around. Time should be on our side, don't you think?
In the meantime, I'll try to show some independence and keep things under control without help from my watch.
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